Huihua, a Chinese student, and Mary, an American student studying Chinese in China, were on their way to a bookstore. As they got to the bookstore, they saw a young man walking down a flight of stairs. In his hurry, he missed the last two steps, and fell on the ground. He struggled to get back to his feet while people around him laughed. Fortunately, he seemed to be O. K.
Mary was worried. She found Huihua smiling a little and was not comfortable about it. Tell me, Huihua, how could people laugh when someone fell like that? Do they care at all? Shouldn't they go up and ask the young man whether he was hurt?
Huihua said, they knew he wasn't hurt too much.
But I still don't understand. A fall is a fall. In my culture, people would do anything but laugh!
Chinese perspective
This is another example in which the Chinese and the Westerner interpret a smile differently. As mentioned in the last case, Chinese people resort to laugh or smile when they feel embarrassed3. Very often, the person caught in the embarrassing situation would also laugh or make a joke, to ease the embarrassment. However, if someone gets hurt seriously, it will not be a laughing matter any more. People will help him/her instead.
North American perspective
A Westerner would interpret laughter in such a setting as a sign of either insensitivity4 or, worse, pleasure that the person falling had hurt himself/herself because that person was disliked. A Westerner's response would have been to rush over, assist the person up, and to inquire about5 any injury by saying something like, Are you okay? If a Westerner fell, they, like a Chinese person, might attempt to make a joke out of the incident if they were not hurt. If two close friends are walking together, and one trips but clearly isn't hurt, a common joke is to say Have a nice trip a pun6 based on two very different meanings of trip: one meaning a vacation, the other meaning to stumble7. However, this joke would be made only between two people who knew each other well.
笑的解释
中国学生慧华和在中国学中文的美国学生玛丽结伴去书店。到书店时看到一个青年正下楼梯，匆忙中少踩了最后两级楼梯，摔倒在地上。他挣扎着站起来，周围一片哄笑声，所幸的是他没受什么伤。
玛丽挺为那个青年担忧，却见慧华嘴角上也有笑意，玛丽看了感觉不是滋味。慧华，告诉我，为何人家摔倒了那些人还能笑出来？他们就不关心人吗？他们就没想到要上去问问那青年是否摔着哪儿了？
慧华说，他们了解他没摔着。
我还是不知道，再如何说也是摔跤。如果在美国，旁观者什么都可能做，就是不会取笑人家。
中国人的讲解
这是另一例中西方文化对笑的不同理解。如上例所说，中国人有时以笑来消除尴尬，而当事人也总是自嘲地笑笑或开句玩笑来缓冲尴尬。不过，假如当事人受了重伤，那就另当别论了，大家会上前相助，而不会一笑置之。
北美人的讲解
西方人会觉得在这样的情况下笑是没同情心，或者更恶劣：是对摔跤受伤者的幸灾乐祸，由于此人不受青睐。通常西方人的反应总是是赶上前扶起摔倒者，关心地问他们你没事吧？摔倒的人假如没受伤，他们自己也会像中国人一样开玩笑。假如两个非常要好的朋友走在一块，其中一个绊倒了但没受伤，容易见到的玩笑话会是旅途愉快这个双关语借助了trip这个词大相径庭的两个词义：一是（度假）旅游，一是绊倒。不过这种玩笑只能出目前很熟知的朋友之间。
